NOW a days, Males are the most deprived gender in this world….(you may believe or not)

(Please remember this writing is not against any gender but to put up a case in-front of you with some arguments)

If you take a notice and search that how many NGOs (Non-Governmental Organizations) & CBOs (Community Based Organizations) are present around the world then you will find a number above one hundred thousand and out of these, almost all cater and work for female/women right but hardly any NGO or CBO works for males. In this world, females are considered as the most vulnerable and deprived gender whereas in my consideration males are now more then anyone else (hehehehehe …. you may agree or not)…… How it is possible that males don’t have rights or problems. I haven’t find any organization in Pakistan at least which console in hard times and stand for his rights.

The image and notion of the past when many males were very much barbaric in treating their females is true. I agree still they are many exist in this world but their number is now much less then comparison to what happened some years ago…now literally females torture their men either physiologically (larger in number) or even they beat their men (believe me its happening)

Because ……………………..

Look at the average age of males versus females in the world especially in South Asia (Pakistan, India, Bangladesh). Females lives more years then males…why?…most of the diabetes, blood pressure and heart patients in the world are males. What are the reasons behind these medical problems?…you will find tension about many matters which male is trying to handle within home and outside apart from other things.

All laws especially alimony process (in USA) are made in favor of females. “I want a divorce”…… Women often initiate and utter these words more than men (research based on the study by Michael Rosenfeld of the How Couples Meet and Stay Together Project done from 2009 to 2015) Even in USA, female get at least half of property / assets share after getting divorce. Even when women is a major guilty person and responsible for factors behind divorce then men….Male husbands are trying more to keep up the marriage but females don’t and even i have heard one sentence out of females mouth in South Asian Countries especially young females “Leave the men/husband if he wont been able to fulfill the desires (money, beautiful house, luxury car, jewelry, separate home where husbands parents or siblings wont live and disturb)“….this is what the loyalty is. But all blames goes over the shoulder of male….

most of the physiological patients are males. In the South Asian countries, males are responsible for bringing money, food to home and females prefer to be housewife and very few females work shoulder to shoulder with their men. So, the household management function depend upon males income. I have literally seen males taking bribe during their government services in order to full fill the desires of their wife’s and for better living of their children’s. Even they do pat time job for managing daily livelihood.

I haven’t seen the world making / celebrating Males Day but every thing done for females. Even the world won’t celebrate Fathers Day with enthusiasm the way they celebrate other days….

Currently, in the jobs sector, females are preferred over males and special quotas are reserved in jobs and education system. All academic admission in medical universities are given to females whereas the practice ratio (utilization of studies in medicine) in South Asian Countries especially in Pakistan are 2 females versus 10 males. It means that females hardly practice medicine after getting degree from medical college or university so billions of investment by the government is ruined.

Response of government organizations towards females is much better then that of males for any services. In Pakistan, women get special attention and there is a separate protocol given to males even some banks allow females to submit anything (utility bills, fees) by coming inside the building whereas males stand outside the building and face sunlight / heat especially in summers.

(You may agree or not)

About ***** Azfar Abbas *****

My name is Azfar Abbas I am an MPA, a Development Sector Consultant & Operations Management Specialist. Worked with the IBRD (The World Bank), PIFD and international organizations. A Lahoree by birth, Taurian by Star, music freak, a writter, singer and a food lover from Lahore, Pakistan
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