Once in the evening (about 13 years ago), i was standing on the ground floor of a multi-story commercial building (at wahdat road Lahore) very near to a video games shop with my friends. My friends met after a gap of one year and we were discussing our experiences of last year. Suddenly, the owner of the video games came outside the shop and stood closer to us. He asked us that “have you seen three kids of age around 17 or 18 coming out of his shop?”… We replied, “No Sir…We didn’t noticed or seen“. The shop owner informed that those teen age boys were playing video games in his shop and have broken one part of the control stick which is used to play video games. Those boys ran away from his shop and didn’t informed him about the broken stick. He then said a sentence which is very important for all of us to notice and think over;
“If those boys belonged to a good family background then they could have paid me money for my loss and not had ran away like this”
The above sentence indicates you that how important moral ethics are and what role do family as well as educational background play to make human as a real human.
Good family background means that your fore-fathers were educated, got a good position and reputation in the society, ethically renowned, never done fraud with anyone, never misled anyone, with no bad character and people recognize you because of your families good nature, moral ethics and excellent past work. This is what each generation carry forward (the good reputation of their fore-fathers) and it become part of their own gene that even if they wanted to do any bad wok / fraud / sin then that gene came inside them by travelling from their fore-fathers would surely stop from acting or committing any sin / fraud etc and persuade them to do the good and sustain that honor.
One of the morals given through “Raja Kidh” written by Bano Qudsia (Famous Urdu Novel Writer and wife of Late Ashfaq Ahmed) that if you do one wrong thing or commit a single sin in your life of whatever nature then that sin will become of your gene and will travel to all generation till the final judgement day. It means that if you have committed a sin in your life or have done wrong / bad act with others then all your up-coming generations will do the same and repeat committing that sin till the appearance final man of your family on this planet earth.
The sentence of that shop keeper realize us that there is an immense importance of good training given by the family to the young ones and how well they have prepared them to act on moral ethics of society and of a nation. The shop keeper basically blamed family and fore-fathers of those kids that they didn’t well trained these kids.